Comments on: Dealing with Depression, Part 1 https://gamergirlconfessions.com/2020/04/04/dealing-with-depression-part-1/ Games, Geekery, Life Tue, 07 Apr 2020 13:16:44 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.5 By: Chestnut https://gamergirlconfessions.com/2020/04/04/dealing-with-depression-part-1/#comment-2999 Tue, 07 Apr 2020 13:16:44 +0000 https://gamergirlconfessions.com/?p=1279#comment-2999 In reply to Bhagpuss.

Yes! It is very much supposed to be something fun. So we need to stop apologizing and enjoy it for what it is! See, I didn’t even have the trigger. That’s what was so scary about it, to be honest.

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By: Chestnut https://gamergirlconfessions.com/2020/04/04/dealing-with-depression-part-1/#comment-2998 Tue, 07 Apr 2020 13:15:34 +0000 https://gamergirlconfessions.com/?p=1279#comment-2998 In reply to Tessa ~ Narratess.

Thank you lovely. <3

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By: Tessa ~ Narratess https://gamergirlconfessions.com/2020/04/04/dealing-with-depression-part-1/#comment-2994 Sun, 05 Apr 2020 10:50:10 +0000 https://gamergirlconfessions.com/?p=1279#comment-2994 Thank you for sharing your story and your upcoming journey with us. It won’t be easy but you’ve got people who’ll support you <3

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By: Bhagpuss https://gamergirlconfessions.com/2020/04/04/dealing-with-depression-part-1/#comment-2993 Sun, 05 Apr 2020 07:58:03 +0000 https://gamergirlconfessions.com/?p=1279#comment-2993 So nice to hear you banging the same drum I pound on every Blaugust/NBI – blogging is supposed to be a hobby and a creative outlet, not some kind of community service order you’re in fear of breaching. I read so many people apologizing or explaining for not posting often enough or regularly enough or for going silent for a while. It’s really not necessary – as readers we’re just happy to see you come back or to read whatever it is you have for us when you’re able and ready to post.

It is, perhaps, good if you know you’re going to take a break to mention it so readers don’t worry about you. They do. I was surprised last year, when I was in and out a bit with ilness, to find how many people were paying attention to changes in my post frequency. Often, though, people aren’t planning to stop posting – they just do. It’s fine. Take the time you need and come back when you’re ready.

On the getting a few pages into a comic and realizing you can’t remember what you’ve read – I’m not sure that isn’t just how I’ve been reading all my life! I work in a bookshop where a big part of the job is knowing about books and what’s in them. Most of the people I work with can do that but me, not so much. When someone asks me what I’m reading it is completely normal for me to be literally unable to remember the title, the author’s name or anything about the characters or plot beyond the page I’m reading – even when I’m sitting there with the book in my hand. I have always been like that – I have to look at the book and see a few words of description before it comes back to me.

Of course, then it does come back. I just need a trigger. It would be terrifying if the trigger stopped firing. Anyway, keep on keeping on. It’s all we can do and probably all we need to do!

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